How to be an effective leader?

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How to be an effective leader?

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You know I found the most important aspects to be an effective leader is to be a servant leader because they understand the needs of the people that are following them. Servant leaders know the strengths and weaknesses of the people. Also, they able to put those people in place where they can function at their best. That is why I believe that effective leader will do. Not only that; but a leader has people following them. So, you want to be able to lead cast vision and make the vision something that the people want to be able to follow. So, that is what I think how to be an effective leader.

How to Know God's Purpose for my life

Finding your Calling?

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Finding your Calling?

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Secondevolution, I think you need to get clear on a simple step by step process in finding your calling. You know I talk about the simple steps by steps process to find your calling at www.definemypurpose.com and of course, you can take up the video and the home study course there to find exactly that. Here is my definition of purpose; when you find what you love to do and use what your greatest do is to become a solution of problems that GOD calls you to fix. That is where you going to find your calling. So, walk through the step by step process at that side and it will help you figure out what your calling is and of course, you can ask me a question here that I loved to answer for you.

Why do I suck so much at setting goals and going after them?

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Why do I suck so much at setting goals and going after them?

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Lookcloser, you know I think that the problem here that actually having is lack of clarity on your purpose. Once you know your purpose, your passions, skills, and everything fall in line. So, I recommend you in getting clear not just in your passions but the four types to find your purpose. So, here is my definition for finding your purpose: When you find what you loved to do and use what your greatest things to become a solution of problems that God calls you to fix. That is your finding purpose. Getting clear on that and I think everything else will come in mind. In addition, you can check my site at definemypurpose.com

How to improve your concentration?

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How to improve your concentration?

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Fergal, you know one of the best resources that I found is the book of "The Way We're Working Isn't Working" by Tony Schwartz. It is the best book I found in concentration and engagement. If you are a reader, you can check it out.

 

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When do you meditate - best time of day?

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When do you meditate - best time of day?

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Fergal, I found the best time for me to meditate is in the morning. So, I start the day with my best foot board but I am working through my passions statements that create a visions for my life. I like to do it in the morning after I wake up, the night before I go to bed, and at lunch time. So three times a day I read through my passion statements that give me clear to form my day.

 

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How to be more effective and not stifle personality?

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How to be more effective and not stifle personality?

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you know, I think that the thing you are looking for is effectiveness and peak performance and at the same time trying to be who you are. I think the way you do that is to begin develop your life around your personality and the things that work in line is your personalities style and you those with extreme focus. That is what I think that you should do.

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How do you set goals and manage to complete them?

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How do you set goals and manage to complete them?

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I know this is six months after January 1st but I would like to share how I set goals and manage to complete them. The first thing is I trained my brain to fulfil my goals without me having to think about it. Goal settings happen only in your conscious brain and your conscious brain only runs in about 4 percent of what you do. Your non-conscious brain runs 96 percent of it. So, I have learned how to train my brain to catch my goals without me having to think about it. Now, I have a bunch of videos explaining how to train your brain. If you want, just check it out. "What should I do with my LIfe?"

 

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How would you develop your spirituality?

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How would you develop your spirituality?

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Amy Twain, the first thing that I have to do to develop my spirituality is to spend time personally with the holy spirit. The second thing would be to find out what GOD wants me to do and devote my life to the fulfilment of that tasks. I believe that is very spiritual nature because I am doing a thing that God is call me to do and I am living a life that would matter and that will change the world. And I think that is very spiritual.

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What you do when you feel tired and demotivated?

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What you do when you feel tired and demotivated?

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Fergal, you know the body was actually created to spend energy and then rest. It is what you called Ultradian Cycle. When you are feeling tired your body is actually telling you that you need a rest. So, I recommend that you spend your energy with extreme focus for 50 minutes and take 10 minute break. Spend energy for 50 minutes and take 10 minutes break and then have 30 minutes break and have to eat something. This is for your working in line with your ultradian cycle and what you find is you are getting more step done in less time because you are motivated to do one thing with extreme focus and then rest. Your body is actually gonna like it at the same time.

 

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How to improve your concentration?

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How to improve your concentration?

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The human body is actually created to function on a work, rest, schedule. So, you work and you rest. It is best if you actually create a task that you can actually focus on, just one task at a time. Focus on  with extreme concentration. I recommend doing it for 50 minutes, take it 10 minute break. Do the tasks for 50 minutes, then, take it 10 minute break and take half an hour to go and get something to eat and rest. Furthermore, come back to do another 60-60-30. So, that is my recommendation, 50 minutes work and one thing with extreme concentrations. 

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How to write goals effectively?

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How to write goals effectively?

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I found its best if your great goals that are "I am" or "I will be" statements because your brain doesn't know the difference between something visualize and something actually leave doubts. When you are saying that "I am getting straight as this semester" your brain will begin to work on making sure that you get straight as this semester.

 

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Does areas of life affect other areas of life?

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Does areas of life affect other areas of life?

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Ultimate, yes,I told these things that removing, let's say, what your passion about were told you save your life because the new which feel like there is no really reason to live. there is nothing that will excite you than your day. There is nothing that will give you energy for your day so every year you would like to set another something that you should remove from your life and I will set your life in possible way but these are the things that you would remove to set you.

 

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Should Purpose and Passions be defined?

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Should Purpose and Passions be defined?

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First of all, I run a site called definemypurpose. Of course, I think my purpose should be defined. Second, there are two types of purpose, the being and there is doing. The doing part of your purpose is why we focus on and why are we calls to do and what should be do in our life. I am very much so think that should be defined so that we have a clear vision of where we going and what we should be doing. And then, we can begin to devote the means of our lives toward that one thing that we are going to do. 

 

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What is the biggest obstacle towards personal effectiveness?

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What is the biggest obstacle towards personal effectiveness? 

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Dan FromSeoul, first of all, the biggest obstacles towards effectiveness is multi-tasking. So, my biggest three obstacles have been lack of focus, lack of energy, and lack of rest.

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What is our purpose in life? and how can we best contribute?

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What is our purpose in life? and how can we best contribute?

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Chief_big, I think really our purpose in life is to find a specific problem and figure out how we use our passions and strengths to become a solution of those problems. The best way to contribute is to do just that because you've literally been wired in your brain to be great at something and it comes so easy to you; you think people are crazy when they say they were stick it do things like you because it just comes so easy to you, so your purpose in life is to use that thing that you do great to become a solution to problems that you are passionate about. If you want more information you can check out my site: definemypurpose.com

 

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How do you stay focus on your goals?

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How do you stay focus on your goals?

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Hi Schenk71,you know I found in my research that less than 5% of your brain power is actually used at creating goals that actually trying to discipline yourself and do actually accomplishable. I found that it is much better to train your brain so were you actually accomplish and designs your goals and not consciously live your goals without having actually think about it. Also, you can actually watch the first video in the link below.

 

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Ever wonder...What is your purpose of existence?

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Ever wonder...What is your purpose of existence?

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Sonic_95,first, I just want to say that of course you are supposed to be here and you can make it through the sub times. My definitions to find the purpose is when you find a role where you can do what you look to do and when usually your greatest doing is to become a solution of problems that God calls you to fix, that is your purpose. I think the problem here is when it comes to a relationships and expectations. As you can see, every single problem that you ever have as a person its because they finally get along of your roles.They think that you are not acting like the way. They think that you should be acting. My suggestion is to give clear on what do you think that you should be like or everything seem just wrong.Why don't you sit down and tell them and sking that there is a big difference because they could be here through human process.

 

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What is your view on accepting “limitations”?

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What is your view on accepting “limitations”?

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You know, it seems to be like you have any form motivations to keep things right. There are four reasons that people do things that is, to get it done, to get it right, get along, or get it appreciated. You seem like you get it right. So, fear-failure is always gonna be your greatest fear because you want to make sure that you do things right and you do your best ability. Sometimes, that doesn't happen so that fear not even you decide to do paralyzes you. We all have limitations. If you ever studied constraints theory then you all know that we all have constraints but we can actually build a habit that strengthens our constraints. I recommend, first, to be clear on the exact constraint or fear-failure, the first thing is to be clear on it. Make a specific plan on what you gonna do to walk yourself through building a habit or you have that fear-failure, what exactly are you going to do to make that better or reverse that fear-failure and to make it sounds like it is fake. And that is possible.

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Purpose of life? Mission Statement?

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Here is the answer: You know, I believe that there is two parts of finding purpose that is, BA and you’re doing. You can actually have mission statement and purpose statement for each one of us. My BA purpose statement is that, I really exist from power people that makes come the greatest they were ever created to be. So, my doing mission statement I am called to disturb trainings that were empower to equipment trainings people to find the place of God's plan to transformation.

 

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How to know what's your passion when you don't like a lot of things?

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How to know what is your passion when you don't like a lot of things?

So, here is the answer: Shallownot, you know what big things when you are trying to find your passion is that you focus on what you do want and what you like, what is your passion about rather than focusing on what you don’t like because the brain doesn't know the difference between what you like and you don’t like. So, when you are focusing on you don't like your brain will actually filter out only that information and cause you to see and do the things that you don't want to do and you don't like. First, we will focus on the things that we do like and after that I would give clear to you on a specific goal where you can realize the things you do like such as analyzing social things and relationship together and you can do that through the sharing of knowledge and encouraging people on fighting in justice. You can do that and focus to your jealous because that is how you begin to realize what your passion is all about in a way that makes it different with people's lives.

 

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How to know what's your passion when you don't like a lot of things?

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How to know what is your passion when you don't like a lot of things?

So, here is the answer: Shallownot, you know what big things when you are trying to find your passion is that you focus on what you do want and what you like, what is your passion about rather than focusing on what you don’t like because the brain doesn't know the difference between what you like and you don’t like. So, when you are focusing on you don't like your brain will actually filter out only that information and cause you to see and do the things that you don't want to do and you don't like. First, we will focus on the things that we do like and after that I would give clear to you on a specific goal where you can realize the things you do like such as analyzing social things and relationship together and you can do that through the sharing of knowledge and encouraging people on fighting in justice. You can do that and focus to your jealous because that is how you begin to realize what your passion is all about in a way that makes it different with people's lives.

 

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How to know what's your passion when you don't like a lot of things?

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So, here is the answer: Shallownot, you know what big things when you are trying to find your passion is that you focus on what you do want and what you like, what is your passion about rather than focusing on what you don’t like because the brain doesn't know the difference between what you like and you don’t like. So, when you are focusing on you don't like your brain will actually filter out only that information and cause you to see and do the things that you don't want to do and you don't like. First, we will focus on the things that we do like and after that I would give clear to you on a specific goal where you can realize the things you do like such as analyzing social things and relationship together and you can do that through the sharing of knowledge and encouraging people on fighting in justice. You can do that and focus to your jealous because that is how you begin to realize what your passion is all about in a way that makes it different with people's lives.

 

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Why do I always feel guilty when there really isn't any reason to?

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Super unknown! When I found with working with people is that when people are feeling guilty it is because they feel like they are not lining up to a specific person that they believed that they should be or some consciously that they gauging their life with. How can you overcome it? I think, first of all, getting clarity on who you are and who you see yourself as a person that you are trying to be or you want to be. Gauging your life in the frozen to the person that you want to be. I think that would be a huge help to help in figure out why you feel guilt and how to get rid.

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Why do I always feel guilty when there really isn't any reason to?

Super unknown! When I found with working with people is that when people are feeling guilty it is because they feel like they are not lining up to a specific person that they believed that they should be or some consciously that they gauging their life with. How can you overcome it? I think, first of all, getting clarity on who you are and who you see yourself as a person that you are trying to be or you want to be. Gauging your life in the frozen to the person that you want to be. I think that would be a huge help to help in figure out why you feel guilt and how to get rid.

Why do I always feel guilty when there really isn't any reason to?